Aspiring creators, from artist to people who want to improve their health, often fail to explore options they really want to act on for fear of looking “bad”. I personally don’t think there is such a thing as “bad” if you’re in the process of creating. You may fail to initially produce the result you desired, but there’s nothing intrinsically “bad” about that. But for those of you who have seen me dance, you’re probably still convinced that some things are just “bad” no matter how I spin it.
I like to argue for people’s possibilities. So for the sake of argument, let’s run with the premise that some things are just plain “bad”; “bad” singing, “bad” writing, “bad” business, and the list goes on.
When I carefully consider this concept of “bad”, however, I realize that “bad” isn’t as “bad” as it sometimes seems. For starters, being “bad” is the exclusive privilege of those who do things. If you’re not doing anything, you’re neither good nor “bad”. Having someone tell you that your work is “bad” is almost like having your name on the V.I.P. list at an elite resort. It lets you know that you’ve made it into the upper echelon of movers and shakers who choose to have an effect on the world. And unlike a V.I.P. pass, you can be sure you’ve achieved this status by your own efforts. When you’re “bad” at something, no one’s going to give the credit to your rich uncle. You get to be “bad” all by yourself.
Secondly, it’s nearly impossible to stay “bad” at most things if you refuse to quit, commit to learning, and keep creating. Instead of seeing “bad” as the end of the world, you can also view it as being analogous to the Big Bang: A first act of creation where a mass of stuff chaotically explodes in different directions only to be organized, synthesized, and groomed over a gradual process. In Genesis when God created Man and saw there was no Woman, he said “This is not good.” What did He do? He kept creating. As I look at my beautiful wife right now, I’m thinking “Not bad, God! Not bad at all!”
What you might consider to be a “bad” result, may actually be a good ingredient in a bigger process of creating something greater than what was originally intended. The next time your inner critic or someone else tells you your work is bad, say “Good! That means I’m creating!” Then, get back to work, keep moving forward, and don’t stop until you reach “Great!”
At least that’s the way I see it. That’s my two cents and you can keep the change.