What if everything you’re unhappy about IS someone else’s fault?
Here’s the “harsh” truth about that assumption:
IF your unhappiness is someone else’s fault, the culpable party is not capable of living your unhappiness for you.
You can go to bed angry at the world, but when you wake up in the morning, you’ll still be you and the unhappiness you blame others for will be right there to greet you.
Which way would you rather live…
1) Resenting other people over the idea of what your life should have been?
2) Doing the best you can to get the most out of the hand you’ve been dealt?
“T.K., are you telling me I don’t have the right to be angry at others for what they’ve done?”
Absolutely not! I’m not here to make you feel bad for feeling bad.
I think you have the right to feel however you feel.
I just don’t want you to be duped, as so many well-meaning and sincere people are, into believing that you can hate your way into a life you love.
So, here’s today’s two cents:
As the Good Book says, “All things are permissible, but not all thing are profitable.”
You have the freedom to do whatever you choose, but you also have the power to choose what is truly best for you.
I hope you choose to go beyond what is permissible.
I hope you pursue the profitable.