I didn’t get the results I wanted, therefore I feel bad.
I feel bad, therefore something is wrong with you.
Something is wrong with you, therefore I have the right to make you feel bad about yourself.
Now that you feel bad about yourself, you owe me something.
Because you owe me something, you need to cater to my feelings until I decide to release you from my prison of blame and resentment.
Read and reread the above five statements.
Every single one of them is based on flawed logic.
By “flawed logic”, I mean “socially acceptable bullshit.”
If you can see through the bullshit in the above statements, you will be free from the bullshit that manipulators and victimizers bring to your life.
At least that’s the way I see it.