The ability to say “I hate my life” does not make one a victim.
Not liking reality isn’t the same thing as being devoid of power.
Personal freedom is not a mood. It’s an ontological fact.
Its existence does not depend on the absence of unwanted conditions.
Its presence is not always confirmed by an abundance of positive emotions.
Feelings wax and wane, but the fundamental being-ness of freedom always remains.
You can wait until you feel free or you can decide to live as if you are free.