Save your heroic deeds. Do not sacrifice your health and wellness to meet my needs.
Do not be generous to me at your own expense. Taking care of yourself makes far more sense.
I don’t need a savior or a martyr. I need a friend. Instead of trying so hard to die for me, how about hanging around until the end?
If you truly care about me, then please take care of you. I benefit more from your happiness than most of the acts of good you try to do.
If you want to make my life easier, let me show you the way: shower me with a list of reasons for why I should believe that YOU’RE okay.