Why place your judgment in someone else’s hands?
When you say, “I can’t trust my own judgment,” then how can you trust your own judgment enough to know that you’re really untrustworthy?
When you say, “I can’t be trusted to make good decisions. Therefore, I’m going to let other people make my decisions for me,” how can you be trusted to make good decisions about who is and who isn’t capable of making good decisions?
It’s impossible to deny your own trustworthiness without simultaneously affirming it.
So, trust yourself. You already do. Now it’s time to own it.