Trust Yourself

Why place your judgment in someone else’s hands? When you say, “I can’t trust my own judgment,” then how can you trust your own judgment enough to know that you’re really untrustworthy? When you say, “I can’t be trusted to make good decisions. Therefore, I’m going to let other people make my decisions for me,” how… Continue reading Trust Yourself

Follow Forward: An Alternative to Following Back

Follow the people you’re interested in, not the people who promise to follow you back as a reward for feigning interest. Following back is reactive. It says “I’ll follow you if you follow me” or “I’ll give you my attention if you give me your attention.” As an alternative to following back, I offer the… Continue reading Follow Forward: An Alternative to Following Back

You Haven’t Practiced Until You’ve Performed

“One more seminar. One more book. One more coaching session. One more practice run-through. Then I can start,” we think. Why not start now? Why not grow on the go? Why not learn while you live? Why not conceptualize while you create? Why not improve while you move? Who sold us on this false dichotomy… Continue reading You Haven’t Practiced Until You’ve Performed

Bring it Forth

“If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” -Gospel of Thomas Self-censorship is a subtle demon. It robs us of our beauty in the name of keeping the peace… Continue reading Bring it Forth