It’s called “self-help”, not “self-hate”

We all have the right to love ourselves regardless of our perceived flaws. There is a dignity that comes with being human and this dignity exists prior to, and independent of, any improvements we need to make. Self-help, personal development, and spiritual practice are not means by which we become worthy. They are simply disciplines… Continue reading It’s called “self-help”, not “self-hate”

Give a damn!

Skill gets the job done, but the appearance of having skill gets the job. Being qualified capitalizes the opportunity. Looking qualified creates the opportunity. Character counts, but conversations rarely get started with character. They typically start with facial expressions, body language, style of dress, and a host of other so-called superficial elements. Perception is not… Continue reading Give a damn!