86% of your week is problem free Pt 2

Yesterday’s post (click here to read) addressed the idea that our problems, measured as physical events occurring in real-time, constitute a very small percentage of  our actual lives. Yet, these “small” problems seem to set the tone of our entire day. A 15 minute argument with a co-worker can amount to a week’s worth of… Continue reading 86% of your week is problem free Pt 2

86% of your week is problem free

  Conflict is an idea that exist primarily in the mind. As I minimize conflict in my thoughts, I reduce conflict in my experience. 90% mind, 10% matter Have you ever heard the idea that your world is 90% mind, 10% matter? It’s been well said that “life is 10% what happens to you and… Continue reading 86% of your week is problem free

The unwanted is the underestimated in disguise Pt 2

I ended my last post (click here to read) by mentioning the power we have to promote problematic people and situations to a more useful function in life through the making of slight adjustments in perspective. Let’s continue following that train of thought. The power of the processing process   You are free to be my… Continue reading The unwanted is the underestimated in disguise Pt 2

Evidence is overrated: It’s not what you can show, it’s what you know

You can’t prove the existence of a headache, but it still hurts Some facts can be known, but not shown. Anyone who’s ever followed a court case knows this all too well, but this is also true of everyday life. If you have a headache, there’s no way you can prove it to me. A headache, by definition, is… Continue reading Evidence is overrated: It’s not what you can show, it’s what you know

Do you want to have the last word or the last laugh? Doers and Debaters

In life, there are Doers and Debaters. Doers are people who act on their desires and follow their dreams regardless of what anyone else thinks. They do things that make them happy and they tend to live deeply satisfying lives. Debaters, on the other hand, are people who orient their lives primarily around the activity… Continue reading Do you want to have the last word or the last laugh? Doers and Debaters