Positive or not, get back in the ring and fight like hell!

Perhaps some situations are bad, but you can’t always allow yourself to see it that way. When things happen to you, you have to happen back to those things. This isn’t about being positive. It’s about being competitive. It’s about imposing your will upon the game of life. It’s about playing your heart out as… Continue reading Positive or not, get back in the ring and fight like hell!

Responsibility and blame

Responsibility and Blame are not the same. Blame is the act of attributing fault or guilt to someone in response to an unwanted result. Responsibility is the act of assuming a leadership role in a given situation. Taking personal responsibility for everything that happens in your life doesn’t mean that you blame yourself for the… Continue reading Responsibility and blame

When it feels like you’re in Hell

‎”If you’re going through hell, keep going.” -Walt Disney Adaptation is a central component in any evolutionary process. There is no way for an organism, structure, or entity of any kind to move from a simpler to a more complex form without having to adjust to rapidly changing environments. Your journey towards deeper wholeness and… Continue reading When it feels like you’re in Hell

Is it difficult to be positive?

Is it difficult to be positive? This is a question many would respond to with a resounding “yes”. In fact, some people accept it as axiomatic that being positive is more difficult than being negative. I don’t think the question is as cut & dry as it appears. Difficulty is as difficulty does Consider the… Continue reading Is it difficult to be positive?

Positive Thinking is not a consolation prize. It’s the gold medal!

In sports, a distinction is made between teams who “play not to lose” and teams who “play to win.” The former doesn’t expect to win. They may have the desire, but they lack the conviction that they have what it takes to ultimately succeed. Instead, they settle for being competitive. Their primary goal is to… Continue reading Positive Thinking is not a consolation prize. It’s the gold medal!